Laura-Lee Was Here

Laura-Lee Was Here

August 28, 2026

"MY Way or the HIGH Way"(Who's Rules Do.You Live By?))



When I was 4 years old in 1970 (Oops❗️🫒 I accidentally outed my age on the internet again) my entire family, (including several extended family members) had gathered in our living around the TV to watch a performance by Frank Sinatra "Live from the Royal Festival Hall." This was the first time any of us had heard him sing, "My Way", which later became Sinatra's signature song.




Go watch it now on YouTube then come back and we'll discuss it.

I'll wait. 

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Frank Sinatra Live 1970 'My Way"


The Grown-ups in the room loved it. They gushed on about his performance for several minutes finally uniting on one main word to describe it.

"POWERFUL!"


Mom said to me,

 "You are being unusually quiet, Laura-Lee. What do you think about the song?"


"It only works if you're Frank Sinatra."


My Uncle Harvey asked, "What does that mean?"


(I paused for a moment to gather my 4 year old thoughts.)


"Well (pause), if you're just a regular guy with a regular job and you are doing it all your way, you're going to get fired.

And (pause) if you're a little kid and you do everything your way you'll probably get a spanking.

So... " 🀷‍♀️ and left my conclusion hanging thinking it was self-evident, but my brother turned to me and said.

""So? So what?"


"So. Doing it 'My Way' only works  IF .. you  are  ... FRANK ... SINATRA!" πŸ˜„

Jim and Mom seemed to appreciate my insightful wisdom and humor which was apparently completely lost  πŸ™…‍♀️ on the rest of my family because I got no Kudos and even less smiles.

(Who can figure out Grown-ups? πŸ’‍♀️)


For more than 50 years I have watched this entire philosophy take over western civilization. Each individual thinking about themselves first and "Looking out for number ONE!" ☝️Of course "Number ONE" being themselves.

Common sense says "We can't ALL be 'Number ONE'  but other belief systems, like Evolution, come along, tell us we are just animals ("Naked Apes") and inserts, "survival of the fittest".

The workaholic Yuppies (Young Urban Professionals) from the 1980s, who were just about money, twisted the Golden Rule from the Bible into, 

"He who has the MOST gold makes the Rules".


It all makes me think of the book of Judges in the Bible when Israel had no kings and "everyone did what was right in his own eyes".

(JUDGES 17:6 and 21:25)


Those were days of chaos, lawlessness and extreme violence and now, with the return of SELF-centered Me-first living, we have again a society of chaos, lawlessness and extreme violence. However, THIS time we have WAY more people and WAY better weapons.


Let's get practical!❗️

There's the problem now what is the solution❓️


It comes in the form of  one of those Attitude Adjustments that are simple but not much fun.

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" You have been set free from sin and have become slaves to righteousness."

Romans 6:18


Paul actually begins the letter to the Romans by identifying himself as,

"Paul, a slave to Jesus Christ ..."

Romans 1:1


The Apostle Simon Peter likewise refers to himself as a "servant" or "slave".

As do several other of Jesus's Apostles, Disciples and Followers.


They were not able to live with this servant/slave mindset because it flowed from their extreme holiness and rabid sainthood naturally, but from their many and intimate moments with Jesus himself.


"Just as the Son of Man [Jesus] did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Matthew 20:28


We become like the people we spend the most time around. You wish to become like Jesus? Spend more time with Him.

Simple. πŸ’‍♀️


But what ISN'T simple is trying to exist daily next to this evil mess which we planted decades ago with our self-indulgent deeds.


I don't have a solution to fix all of society only encouragement as we walk daily through it trying to survive.


We must become the servants of Jesus and we must LOOK FORWARD to the time when Jesus will be (very much) ruling and reigning from right here on earth.


"Here is my SERVANT whom I uphold,

    my chosen one in whom I delight;

I will put my Spirit on him,

    and he will bring justice to the nations.

2 He will not shout or cry out,

    or raise his voice in the streets.

3 A bruised reed he will not break,

    and a smoldering wick he will not snuff out.

In faithfulness he will bring forth justice;

4     he will not falter or be discouraged

till he establishes justice on EARTH.

    In his teaching the islands will put their hope.”

Isaiah 42:1-4


This WILL happen because God NEVER breaks His Promises and they are worth living for and longing for.


As for Frank Sinatra...? πŸ’‍♀️


Sorry, Frankie! You   (and your hard drinking, fast living "Rat Pack")   got it WRONG❗️πŸ”΄ (no matter how "powerful" you sang it). 🀨


The (OMNIpowerful) 

Truth

 with Love,

Always Laura-Lee 


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Now your treat for scrolling to the end of this difficult post.

Share a 1990s memory with me.

Picture it❗️Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada.

A "Sold Out" Margaret Becker concert.

A young woman in her 20s (Oops❗️🫒Accidentally outed ...

"Yes, yes. Let's get on with it, Laura-Lee! "😑)


My, my, aren't you cranky. You need to dance around and Praise the Lord like we all did that night so long ago.

Margaret did this song as an encore. It is hard to locate (Apple/iTunes has never had it) but some lovely person put it on YouTube years ago.


"I COMMIT'  by Margaret Becker.

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"I say this simply with no regrets I was born to testify.

THERE'S NO SHAME IN BEING YOUR SERVANT.

IT'S THE HIGHEST CALL IN LIFE☝️❗️

Still I need to remind myself

That I'm happiest on my knees

When I am thanking You for who You are

and all that You've done for me."


Link Margaret Becker I Commit YouTube music video


 

"I Commit. (clap clap clap) πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

I Commit. (clap clap clap)"πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘


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BTW Here’s the REAL "Golden Rule" spoken by Jesus during His Sermon on the Mount [of Olives].






















August 22, 2026

A Few, Friendly Words for Christian Pastors πŸ™‚



Hi There! πŸ˜ƒ

I just need a few quick words with your Pastor. Would you excuse us for a moment? 🫠



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Okay, LISTEN UP "Ladies" ... ❗️❗️❗️


(😳 gulp)


I became a Christian in 1978 just one month before my 12th birthday

 (Oops! 🫒 Accidentally outed my Biological and Christian age on the internet again)

And through all these decades I have told women it is fine to teach the Bible, ☝️ but we haven't the right to tell the men what to do because God has ordained them as our leaders. I have taken a LOT of crap and heat for saying it, but it's in God's Word so that is the way it HAS to be.

But I'm about to rescind that order because you are all in need of a kick in the butt and I'm wearing the boots to do it.


(Pausing to gather thoughts) πŸ˜”


I'm a Behaviorist and trained to identify anomalies in human behavior and I've been seeing some very disturbing things from our Christian leaders. Men that I would have declared as "solid" just six years ago.

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When Covid shut Church doors many  Ministers started to put their sermons online. Suddenly they didn't just have a few hundred Congregants listening to them but gradually grew to have thousands of people listening to them online. That number grew to 10s of thousands and now HUNDREDS of Thousands. 😲

After that their next move was to get a book out as quickly as possible. Then another. Then another.

Then the big announcement,

"I'm stepping down as Pastor in order to focus on my Internet content and YouTube channel."

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The beginning of the End for their character as they went off to chase the Carrot on the Stick.

Now EVERYTHING they do has a price tag attached to it.

It was such a short  time ago when their sermons were NOT Monetized, they were not constantly selling merchandise and Bible Conferences and Live Streams were F R E E❗️


SO tons of them have turned into money-grubbing, apostate hucksters. The Bible said it would it happen in these End Times, so it doesn't come as a huge surprise to me. I'm not going to waste a bunch of my precious time on them.


But what I do wish to address are the few men who are still Pastors of churches and putting out sermons. They wish to hold the line but they are sliding away fast due to strain and fatigue.


One major sign I've recently seen is Pastors increasingly becoming  forgetful and scatterbrained and mixing up people's names. I just saw a sermon where the Pastor kept mixing up Rebekah and Rachel.

Another one kept saying Solomon when he meant Samson.

And they are all getting Bible references wrong.

Sometimes they will even forget where the Bible event took place.


Or they are going off their topic and interjecting rants about politics, antisemitism, communism, fascism, Tucker selling out to Qatar and Candace being insane.

Ministers are so incredibly agitated they can no longer stand still behind their pulpits but pace around yelling.

You are all looking and sounding like ranting, hyper LUNATICS❗️


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(sigh 😣)


Look, Pastor, I get it. You have tons of demands on you and a LOT of people relying on you. You realize Jesus's return is close and you are feeling the intensity of purpose and dwindling time and are desperate to keep your Followers doctrinally correct, but the greatest contribution you can make to those who follow you is to remain 

C A L M.

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I was thinking of great military leaders of recent wars. They were leading men into active combat and frontline situations and they just didn't have the luxury of FREAKING out because people were depending on them, watching them and feeding off of their vibes.

What do you think it does for your church members to see your sermons filled with mistakes, you constantly forgetful, peevish, and HAVING a meltdown!

It's extremely frightening for us.







Let's get practical❗️

When I see a Minister fretful and forgetful I know the time they spend in  in their Prayer Closet is the problem. They are not spending enough time in the presence of the "Prince of Peace" and it is affecting everything in their lives.

If you cannot preach the Word or give a talk in a clear, concise manner that inspires confidence in Jesus, you need to spend more quiet prayer time to focus on the Lord before you hit the stage or get in front of a camera.

You also need to preserve at least one ☝️day a week where you completely disconnect from the Internet for 24 hours. ALL devices off❗️No exceptions. Most Pastors have Sundays as their busiest day of the week so they preserve Monday to completely close up shop. Trust me, the World will keep revolving and the Universe unfolding without you for a day.

If you find you cannot do what I say, then you are already past any help I can give you and need to seek professional help before you Crash and Burn.


 Stop acting like a little girl who has her petticoats on fire. We are enduring some evil, confusing and tumultuous days, there are more to come and 

... we need you, Pastor.




(Oh. And let's not tell the Women-Folk what we discussed or I'll never hear the end of it.) πŸ«ͺ



Okay. Here's your Pastor back. Good as new.




The Truth with Love,

 Always Laura-Lee


"For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon  HIS  shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace."

Isaiah 9:6 (Emphasis mine)

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 "What a friend we have in Jesus

All our sins and griefs to bear

What a privilege to carry

Everything to God in prayer.


O what peace we often forfeit

O what needless pain we bear

All because we do not carry

Everything to God in prayer."


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My previous blog post, "Onward Christian Soldiers"


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